CCI’s LEAD-cast

As we are going through our operation MAYhem currently, updates are minimal this time around. Please refer to these quotes if you feel that you have reached your wit’s end. Battle all the way - at least you know you’ve tried. Here’s some inspirational quote for all of you:

Anyone can give up, it’s the easiest thing in the world to do. But to hold it together when everyone else would understand if you fell apart, that’s true strength.
– Author Unknown

Confront the dark parts of yourself, and work to banish them with illumination and forgiveness. Your willingness to wrestle with your demons will cause your angels to sing. Use the pain as fuel, as a reminder of your strength.
– August Wilson

In the darkest hour the soul is replenished and given strength to continue and endure.
– Author Unknown

It does not take much strength to do things, but it requires great strength to decide on what to do.
– Elbert Hubbard 

It takes more courage to reveal insecurities than to hide them, more strength to relate to people than to dominate them, more ‘manhood’ to abide by thought-out principles rather than blind reflex. Toughness is in the soul and spirit, not in muscles and an immature mind.
– Alex Karras

Life is very interesting… in the end, some of your greatest pains, become your greatest strengths.
– Drew Barrymore

Our strength grows out of our weaknesses.
– Ralph Waldo Emerson 

Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indomitable will.
– Mahatma Gandhi

Strength does not come from winning. Your struggles develop your strengths. When you go through hardships and decide not to surrender, that is strength.
– Arnold Schwarzenegger

Strength is a matter of the made-up mind.
– John Beecher

The important thing about a problem is not its solution, but the strength we gain in finding the solution.
– Author Unknown

When you get to the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on.
– Franklin D. Roosevelt

And I saw this power quote at a school I just conducted:

“I wept when I had no shoes until I saw a man with no feet”

Good luck to operation mayhem, CCI!

Best regards,

Carolyn (Trainer)

Hi all,

Due to the recent pandemic of the H1N1 flu (Influenza A), I urge all of you to practise extreme hygiene. Please wash your hands regularly after major activities. If you are sick, do not wait till you have coughed your lungs out before seeing a doctor.

The number of cases of H1N1 flu has been rising so I urge all of you to keep vigilant. At this point of time, I strongly urge all of you to participate more in our blogs!

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The recent case of H1N1 has reached a level of alarm to many of us. However, I feel that Singapore has taken every measure to protect the citizens. Lucky for us - we previously experienced SARS. This setback has obviously taught us a valuable lesson and now we are prepared for the worse.

The thing about Singaporeans is that we tend to get a little too complacent in matters like this. Since it has become a worldwide pandemic, I urge everyone to practice hygiene so that you and I will not be a victim of H1N1.

Please wash your hands at every chance you get and if you are sick, do see the doctor!

Carolyn (Trainer)

As I read the Leadership Bible by John C. Maxwell, I realised that everyone has leadership within us, whether unleashed or not unleashed. What exactly is leadership? Can it be seen? What can leadership do for you? Is it important to have leadership? The answer lies within yourself whether you want to lead.

I have been in the leadership reign for 10 years since my poly life and now my entrepreneur life. Everywhere I go and in everything I do need leadership. Leadership to rule over oneself, leadership to rule over others, and leadership to rule over situations.

When I decided to rule over myself, I change the pattern of my habits and my behaviour. For example, i decided to be disciplined and set myself to focus on my exams. All that affections that may lead me off track has failed to tempt me. In self-leadership, you take charge of your own life and not allowing temptations to rule over you

When I decided to rule over others, I did it with sincerity and faithfully. It’s genuine from the bottom of my heart that I want to help my team when it’s down. When I say rule other others, I don’t mean lead them as what a King will do. I meant to take lead when there’s a need to, and to be led when there’s a need to. To honour others to lead is to honour oneself’s pride. In team-leadership, you take charge of the team you want to excel in and not lead like a commander or shy like a tiny little ant

When I decided to rule over situations, I don’t allow situations to rule over me. How will you react if you really want to do well but most of the time, you don’t see results? Do you give up or persevere on? Do you agree with your teachers if he said your class are a lousy one or proof to him that you are that one special gem that’s waiting to be polished? In true leadership, no matter what situations you are in, no matter what challenges you faced, you will gather all sort of ingredients to overcome it.

The world needs leaders. The world needs you to be a leader. I want to spread the gospel of leadership to as many people as possible and hopefully one day, they will be awaken. And one day, they will come to realise that they can stop wasting their lives studying for the sake of studying, working for the sake of living, and living for the sake of living. I want them to understand that there’s so much more to it when you lead.

That leader I know knows himself. That leader I know knows others. That leader I know will not give up. Are you that leader I’m talking about?

- Justin (CEO, Trainer)

Many a times we keep saying that “life sucks”. During times like this we all usually fail to understand the situation as a whole. It is normal for us all to be like this because ‘we don’t see things as they are, we see them as we are.’ This quote has been on my MSN nickname for a while now. I don’t intend to remove it until I manage to fully understand and utilize the quote’s teaching.

This quote is a simple yet powerful one. It helps build one’s attitude and character.

I’ve been told that young people nowadays, including my generation don’t really appreciate quotes. Or rather don’t know how to appreciate quotes. There is nothing wrong with that actually.

I personally love quotes. Especially those short and sweet messages because it will hit me hard. Those simple yet powerful quotes are good ones. Because with short quotes I can remember better and follow better. Sometimes this is how I build my attitude and character.

How about you?

(Aaron - Fac)

Looks like character development and leadership development is really essential for all the pillars of our future. Can you imagine the next victim is you or someone you know? Just because the younger generation has began to lose their direction in their lives? Just because they are unable to tell the difference between right and wrong?

This may seem like a trivial issue compared to the economic downfall or any riot or civil war happening in other places. However, if we continue to neglect this problem, it will develop into a tumor of the society. What we might face in the future are road bullies and fights happening in neighbourhood every now and then. A peaceful island might turn into a boxing ring. I’m not trying to exaggerate the situation but for any trainers and facilitators who served leadership and character development programme before will certainly be worried about the student involved and hope to play a part in imparting the correct values and changing the mentality of the student and of course, to many other students. I hope leadership can be instilled in everyone’s heart, starting from self-leadership…

“ Only you can change yourself, just like you are the engine of the car and other people are just the gears to push you forward.“

Is it me, or are the new generation students bolder and more daring/outrageous as compared to the students back in the olden days?

Recently, I came across an article about a secondary school student punching a bus driver after the latter scolded him for littering on the bus. I was rather shocked at the sheer audacity of students these days.

No longer are students shy to talk about sexual education. No longer are they that afraid of violating school rules or having had their parents called up by the school. My, how students these days have matured so rapidly.
As a trainer, we often teach our students about Personal Leadership and the ‘Right Attitude in Me’. But what exactly is the ‘Right Attitude’? In my opinion, it is sometimes ambiguous as to what is the right attitude to react when in the wrong situation. That’s when we, as leadership trainers or even as their elders, step in to guide and offer advice to these student leaders who are confused about their innate abilities to exercise the right attitude.
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Public Speaking
1. Open with a humorous/emotional story that leads to your key message
2. Ask a question that gets people thinking
3. Do a demonstration that leads to your message
4. Shock them with facts and numbers
5. Start off with a cartoon or video, funny is optional
6. Pause…
That’s right. Inaction could be one of your most powerful tools as a speaker. Most speakers rush to start either due to their nervousness or lack of experience. However if you observe powerful speakers, especially politicians, they take their time. Every second of silence equates to a pound more authority. As James C Hume commented, “Men, as well, as women, whether tall or short, can gain stature through strategic silence.”

- Margaret (Facilitator)

Gratefulness is letting others know by words and actions how they have benefited my life.

I will count my benefits rather than my burdens
How we will look at our circumstances will determine our happiness. If we constantly look at what we don’t have instead of being grateful for what we have, we will become discouraged or even bitter. We should count our blessings as there will always be others who have more and others who have less than we do.

I will listen to criticism
When we are criticized we must separate what is being said from how it is being said.
There may be a lesson to be learnt that may benefit us if we do this. If we constantly adjust our behavior to the criticism we will become better persons and earn the respect and trust of others.

I will point others in the right direction

I will wait for the best time

- Margaret (Facilitator)

Life. What’s that? How do we know that we’ve experienced it to the fullest? Questions that even the greatest philosophers have asked time and time again. After being a facilitator, I think I’ve actually gain some insight into this.

Life. A sequence of event that happens to an individual as he/she journeys from the beginning (birth) till the end (death). SO what about it? Well from my experience as a facilitator, I’ve truly learnt how not to underestimate one’s life experience just cause he/she is young. Through all the schools I’ve been to, all the pupils I’ve interacted with, I realized how sheltered I truly am. From schools like Si Ling Sec to Bishan Park, the kids we take never fail to amaze me time time again. Those with poor family backgrounds pushing and working hard to make their lives count for something. To stay so strong in such trying circumstances. These children have probably seen and experienced life much more than many of us. They fight to survive. Juggling a job and school work to add to their family income. It just seems like such a mammoth task, yet these kids do it so well, excelling in their studies and keeping their job.
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